(Nee Shakal) Died peacefully on Saturday, June 23, 2018. Age 73. Loved wife of Edward for 50 years. Amazing mother of Laura “Sam” (Ken) Lutze and Rebecca (Jeremy) Thoren. Grandma of Kyla, Levi, and Nolan. Lucy was devoted to her family, her career as a nurse, and her art. She was the bravest woman we know, fighting for each day of her life with a smile.
Gathering at Krause Funeral Home, 12401 West National Avenue, New Berlin, Wisconsin on Friday, June 29, 2018, from 2:00 PM – 4:45 PM. Memorial service at 5:00 PM.
“Our mom was a mountain climber. And yesterday she reached her summit. Her life was one of struggle, unbeatable odds and unspeakable pain. Despite this, she tackled the tallest mountain she could find. She did everything they told her she couldn’t, including marriage, two children, a career, and so much more. Our mom survived polio, which left her with a life expectancy of 40. She endured surgery to prolong her life, considered barbaric by today’s standards, and with debilitating long term effects. She was diagnosed with advanced MS at 48, which soon left her disabled. Despite all this, she lived to 73. Not a day without pain, restriction, disadvantage, or all the above. None of this stopped her. And while complaining would seem completely reasonable based on the cards she was dealt, she never did.
There are days we wonder if our lives matter. If our lives have a true purpose. Mom, you mattered beyond question. To everyone you met, you inspired. While we struggled with our own little foothills, and you confidently strode to the top of your personal Himalaya, with love and compassion to spare.
The empty space you have left is overwhelming. There are moments we cannot see through the void. And then there it is. A small mark on a tree. A path that forms through the brush. The marks of a trailblazer. And we realize we need to remember you and tap into what you passed to us. That strength and perseverance. The focus on what you love vs the distractions and naysayers. You made it look easy. It never feels easy. Especially now.
Thank you for all you did, stood for, represented and taught. For what you gave, shared and instilled. For helping us become who we are. We love you. Always.”